For men and women, sexual satisfaction isn’t the same. Great sex happens when interests are aligned; and when they are not, the sex suffers.
Here are possible reasons you’re not having great sex:
1. Important conversations have not been had
At the heart of it, sex is intimacy and intimacy means “close familiarity and friendship.”
Everyone’s body is like a story; knowing them and their body requires conversation...
Of course, the months or weeks leading to a new relationship and even the early stages of it would be filled with questions and observations and other ways of trying to know each other more and familiarize yourselves with each other.
Of all the necessary conversations to have, the one about sex might be one of the most awkward ones. And it won’t be surprising...
